1st off, I
DO NOT work out. I feel like I have to mention that because people tend to think I do from my pics & I don't want to scare anyone off. It must be the lighting or the angle of the pics.
I have decided to take my pics down simply because I was getting way too many emails & such. If we connect & find we have intellectual chemistry, I would be more then happy to show them to you.
IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PIC, PLZ DO NOT MESSAGE ME.Fair is fair. I have self confidence, self awareness & all the important self stuff & I don't NEED attention posting half nekked pics but I don't have very many body pics so pic #6 is just to show that I'm not overweight as many men get a big surprise when they meet SOME women who only post face pics.
It would be very much appreciated if you
read all of this profile before attempting to contact me. I will leave it up to you to decide if I am worth this read. You just might be pleasantly surprised.
I DEFINITELY know what I want & this mini novel (LOL) might give you a better idea of the type of guy I'd like to spend some time with. This also might be a long read, but gentlemen,
PLEASE read my profile carefully as to what I am looking for in a man and if you truly believe you are perhaps the below mentioned (and then some), come say HI!
I'm down to earth & a laid back person. I have a funky,
wacky, spicy, & sometimes a somewhat
offbeat sense of humor & I luv to
laugh until it hurts or until you are making the ugly face with
tears rolling down your cheeks from laughing so hard. (You all know what I mean) hehe. I know when to be serious, but I am playful and
silly,
flirty, lighthearted, sarcastic, & a bit of a smartass (in a good way). I sometimes can be pretty shy, but warm up quickly with the right person.
I'm also a one of a kind lady, who loves most men. Men are one of my weaknesses. I don't love all men. I’m rather selective with whom I lavish all my attention.
I'm not looking for perfection. I don't believe that such a thing exists. I just want a man who respects himself so in turn he can respect me. Someone who lives a pretty healthy lifestyle. I like a man that possesses a
STIMULATING INTELLECT, and has the right mix of passion & deep-rooted hunger for the sensual side of life. I could be attracted to you like a magnet if you match my mental, emotional & physical energy; you'd definitely win a piece of my heart.
I'm 100% real, soft to touch, easy to hold, & on some days, pretty easy on the eyes (so I'm told) & I'm looking for the same. Just looking for funky times (but not like that) hehe. Just a lot of cuddles with someone who mutually agrees we are truly just friends for now & see where it can take us. Ideally it would be lovely to be in a long-term relationship. I guess what I'm saying is, I'm waiting to be wooed by that special someone someday.
I like to think outside of the box, so age to me is just a number (within reason). I'm more interested in the life experiences that have shaped you into who you are today. But having said that, I'd enjoy being wooed by someone who is closer to my age. There's that word again...I think 'woo' is the word of the hour! LOL
My native empathy and compassion makes me very sensitive to the suffering of others. Yes, I can get watery eyed watching the news and sometimes-even commercials (don't laugh).
3 things are important to me,
CHEMISTRY, PERSONALITY and LIFESTYLE. Being somewhat adventurous, & sensual, affectionate, open, witty, sharp minded, passionate, & making people laugh allows me to live each moment to the fullest. I embrace diversity & like to meet people of different ethnic backgrounds. I value honesty & deal in real life, real action, & with real people. (I don't have time for the liars in Computer land), plus I can smell you a mile away. Besides what kind of friendship would it be if you started off with a lie? I believe a friendship should enhance ones life not become ones life. No stalkers plzzzzz.
I like a guy that is debonair & the silent
CONFIDENT type.
Physically-takes great pride in his appearance. I'm not looking for a girlie guy but having said that (KINDA the metro sexual type), who is still manly, & to me he has sex appeal, charisma, & a nice bummie. I should mention I'm not fond of body hair. That's part of the metro sexual thing I suppose (sorry guys). Some guys are so hairy that if it weren’t for the nipples you’d confuse their front with their back. Some of these guys like to pretend that all hair is sexy & the more the merrier. Back hair is not chest hair, ditto shoulder hair & neck hair–none of it is attractive. Stragglers need to be addressed, quickly & efficiently. It is true, some women love a hairy man, but you’ll be hard pressed to find one running her fingers through her boyfriend’s shoulder hair. LOL. Ok, maybe A LITTLE hair is fine. One last physical thing, I'm REALLY into eyes, so if you have light colored eyes that would be a bonus but
NOT necessary.
I like honesty & speaking one's mind. Integrity, laughter (you should be pretty humorous). Have tolerance, loyalty, openness (for example: someone who thinks having sex in public is ok. Oh my!! Did I just say that?
I'm not saying I'd do that (grin) but you should be pretty experimental though, in all aspects of your life. Knowing when to let loose is always a good thing, being adventurous, not afraid of change, good imagination (it would be nice if you were creative when being romantic). Being kind, trustworthy, loyal, gentle, affectionate, warm hearted, did I mention have a nice bummie? (I kid, I kid). I adore someone who is not afraid to show his emotions, or A LITTLE sensitive. e.g.:( not embarrassed to cry 'IF' need be). I must throw in the natural gentleman thing, for example: opening car doors, walks on the curb side when with a woman, and knows how to treat a lady. Kind of the old fashioned type, with a little bad streak
(but not too bad) along with high morals & standards.
DEFINITELY has to be a
NON SMOKER, with
NO KIDS, preferably
NEVER MARRIED. That is basically what I think would be nice in a partner, but as I mentioned earlier, perfection does not exist. This is just the type of fella that I'd like to occupy my time with.
I really do try to respond to all messages I receive, after all, you've spent the time to send me one, I just think it's proper to respond back. If I've deleted you, it could have been by accident. I'm fairly new to this and I find myself clicking onto buttons to learn how to use this site. It's like trial and error for me. Sowweee
Well...what can I say. I believe that there is no real ideal date, only ideal company. If u are with the right person then anytime, anyplace or anything can be a good first date. I just love when the chemistry and pheromones are all in place. Ahhhhhh (that's me sighing).
I'd prefer if the person has put some thought process into the date, but having said that....it doesn't mean that I'm not spontaneous, and I do adore surprises...but just don't tell me you have one for me. That would just drive me crazy!
The ending of the date would consist of you wanting more of me.....wondering when you'll see me next. And of course, me looking forward to our next outing to see you.
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