Online Dating & Personals    

hummm....no one must like me ... lol... i keep not hearing from people i try to get in contact("i get no respect!")... oh woh is me...so lonely, "NOT"...i'm still laughing and enjoying life, i would like to share the fun times, hey if you see me online don't be shy IM me! or message me..lol...have fun.

have fun reading...do you now rodney dangerfeild... i like his type of humour ... to
bad about today's extreme stance on public political correctness framework and lack of tolerance toward today's improper or touchy subject...Ooooo!... why can't we laught about anything c'mon take i easy, have fun...relax...take the time to see the fun in things...in everything!

tundra my 8yr old husky, on mtl vacation in a sculpture & riding a bull, after a real nice relaxing fall walk in the woods around home, peaceful evening with some pets, walk in the trails, short day trips, ...

i am looking for a few good women friends with no sexual benefits and no pressure, no i am not gay or bi, lol.. ...to comfortably hang out with from time to time, in the hopes of developing strong friendships and find a real special "one" and nurture a long term relationship/partner/life mate/soul-mate/...,(ya kinda of hopeless romantic)

french canadian originaly from ottawa-vanier
fluently bilingual
passed most of my childhood summers up at the parents cottage in the upper gatineau hills
now i own my own and look forward to spending lots of time there later on or sooner
i value friendship and respect
i have many looks ( i guess must of been and actor in past life or what not)
but remain true to myself and faithful to all
(again respect i expect and reciprocate)
i never mean any harm or insult, it is not in me
i am not to good at dates, so i rather go out as friends, and see from there...


i am described as having no major and very few (social, personal, moral, ethical) faults (pretty much just poor writting) and way to good of a guy! well i also don't get along with jocks! way to much testoteron and not enough brainzzzzzzz, i'm not much into marketed sport viewing or heavy beer/booze drinking
slight thurst for knowledge...i have taken many classes at carleton u and readings on biology, biotechnology, phylosophy, law, business, pshycology, arts, general arts, nano technology, engineering, bio eng., computers, ... etc...
i do not realy like to dating-bar-meat market-massive mingling seen-restaurants, i'll go but it aint much my thing, unless it involves pool, swimming... well within my interest listed above this window.
rather skip dating and see what flurishing friendship has to offer then progress from there if it is right... although if the chemistry is there dating...etc... might not be to bad...lol.

i value the old school ways and values and yet envy the ethical sexual freedom of the new generation and at the same time worry about humanities lack of rational/respectable values and character, yet remain hopeful for better things/times for all of us, yada yada yada , yes i can be deep and love to talk about it and yet also like silence... everything in moderation all the time or excess at times and total void other times wich evens out might just be what budda ment by everything in moderation...all about ones perceptions...i am realy not religious just philosophicaly/idiologicaly/artist/all-inclusively generalized minded, yet not educated in many subjects yet...yad yada yada...tantra humm... now that is a subject i would also like to continualy learn more about ;)

prefer; slim to average build and look
ottawa living persons, pshycologicaly healthy person,
geneticaly/naturaly a woman
not limited to blonds, age, race,
physical health not important,
physical disabiliti(es) not important
hight not important
financial situation not important
baggage not important

for now to hang out, watch movies/shows/...at home, sit/sing/laugh by a campfire in the back yard, go for walks in the trails just next to my place or other places like the gat. park, walk the dog(s), go to the cottage, camping, enjoy lifes many playsures including check out comedy shows, go cross country skiing/skating/roller blading, play chess/checkers/cards/...ice fishing, summer fishing, light shopping excursions, outdoor outings, biking, helping out others (person(s)/animal(s)/society/...) when possible ...which makes hanging out with me quite interesting...

i am an easy going, caring, sympathetic, empathetic,low maintenance, down to earth guy, seeking friendship, compassion, companionship, buddy, ... with similarly interested persons

i am a laid back no drugs, hippi-like,
non-materialistic , realist, descent, caring, artisticly minded, and the list goes on.... and on... and on...

hey..caution ..**** some scary money , health stuff for some****
to sum it all, i am somewhat NORMAL guy, MONEY IS NOT MY THING at all, if i have it great if not i do with out, sometimes i am Mr. money bags and treat everyone to gifts and money other times i am just broke or seem beyond financial help...that is life and i accept it and i hope you to be open, honest and accepting about this subject if your to be-friend me.
hey i to also wish upon a star to win the lotto or to fall mutually in love with gorgeous "miss money bags" an not have the financial heavy roller-coaster style life taht we mostly have...

also caution **** Ooooo scary alert!!!!*****
i feel like i am 20, my body feels like 50 some days and 15 other days, i was born in 1972 (34 young) and so it all evens out,...
i feel i have to inform you early on, that i do suffer from varing boughts of IBS (no not catchy, LOL),it limits my activities from time to time, masive stomac cramps... so with that in mind
if your are selfish, conseeted, short tempered, shallow, arrogant, ... all of the bad trates don't bother with me keep going on to someone else..., i use to enjoy everyones company
(i am one who believes that there is a welth of good in everything adn everyone)
and give one or more chances to everyone "but now", i have not the energy or the will or time for it. i rather keep interacting with more naturaly good persons for the time being.

i am only looking to enjoy life and to enjoy it with good, well meaning, caring, compationate, thrue, ... well i think you get the message...

here is to talking to you soon, "that single guy"

humm more... well...
yes i'm told i kinda look somewhat similar to ...howard stern in some pictures but not really in life though well maybe i could if i were so incline to act or look it, lol
well i ad (stress)... no head games, must be honest and open, ...
in one word RESPECT in every shape, form, meaning, act,...it is all i ask
and (for the deeper person ) yes dis-respect in bed is also a form of respect ...

-the nitty gritty;

ok s

part II from above ;

love massages oh good now that is a turn on
tantra ready willing and learning
i can be quite demanding or/and giving
high drive and/or low, varies alot but evens out quick turn around when promted
when properly stimulated will go all night and beyond (proven fact)
can be disrespectfull and uninhibited if you ask or imply
can take the initiative or be initiated
i can be shy and also very free spirited and wild
so i am a complexe being and know you to be to
i have not been around the block much nor am i a vrgn, that ship sailed long time ago...lol...
don't message me for sex only...i am not a man hoar or nothing close to it. althouhg i am kind'of envyous of them , fro the money they make and for there experiences , the pleasures they've had, and quiver at the thought of the danger they have faced...the potential health and phsycological danger to them and others.
i have no STD's, I am well hung, good not mega huge size...wink wink.. LOL...

also if there is no chemistry,... well just like a girl i am on this subject... then nothing 's going to happen...my d*ck does not rule me unlike most other guy.
i love to be visual and mentaly stimulated , and physicaly to, LOL...

ok so i have in the past only sought after the inner beauty of people and have been fortunate and unfortunate in finding long-term girlfriends that where both or singularly beautifull inside and/or outside... and have found that i feel more stimulated and sexual if and when the body of my partner is slim or athletic looking...(i would like to say that i am not shallow, it is what it is and i am what i am and it took me a while to admit it to myself)... and she must be beautiful inside...that i remain fervantly strong on that requirement.
if you are hot looking , oh my...it is a definate bonus ....wow

yeow i am more open about myself than i wanted but hey it is all good

wow hey if you've gone through all this and you find yourself wondering more and are a respectfull person , jump for it contact me, i would love to hear from you,
...email me at "dealsottawa@yahoo.ca"""""" or just call 841-7361

***************dating humm...*********************

hum this is a tuffy... not only does it depend on the moment but mostly on the person i am with , so i would say that since i would like to be with someone with similar interests,... then start off by... meeting for tea at a coffey shop/chapters to meet and chat then if things are good proceed with a walk in a park to enjoy nature and hopefully a sunny day or star lit evening, then maybe ... who knows... movie, mini-put, bolling, dinner, romance,...i am respectfull and easy going and depending on the company can be spontaneous, energetic, etc...

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