I consider myself a decent looking person, sensitive, caring, family-oriented, adventurous, fun-loving, open, a good communicator and listener, and quite easy-going.
James Taylor said it best in his song the Secret of Life: "..is to enjoy the passing of time.". Looking for company to do just that!
What I would do on a first date is really finding out what the other person would find fun to do, and/or comfortable with. Dinner & movie is kind of cliche' but it's comfortable usually. I've done all sorts of first dates from day hikes to concerts.